wedding 2022 | Choosing a Ring and Other Bling Jewelry

Jewelry

by Anne Pyburn Craig

date posted: March 20, 2022

The ancient Romans believed that there was a vein leading directly from the fourth finger of the left hand to the heart. They called it the vena amoris. Thus, to this day, most of us wear our engagement and wedding finery on that finger, despite the fact that we now know all our fingers are connected to our hearts. It’s a handy (a-hem) code for “I’m committed” and so much more: the soaring feeling you get in your heart glancing down at it, the comfort of touching it. Vein or no vein, a lovely wedding ring feels like a direct line to the heart chakra for sure; your wedding rings will hold a meaning and magic all their own.

Depending on your gown and hairstyle choices, a tiara or headband may be just the thing to top everything off; if you’re wearing a fancy updo that commands attention, a sparkling brooch as an accent can be stunning.

So get a design that you love, whether that’s the simplicity of a band of yellow gold, an Irish Claddagh, an infinity twist, eternity band, or something you dream up with your jeweler. Wear it on that finger and people will make the default assumption. Platinum is said to represent purity, rarity, strength, and everlasting true love. Gold is said to represent passion, prosperity, illumination, and a bright future. Silver means serenity, purity, and wisdom. We say your wedding ring means exactly whatever the two of you decide it does, probably all of these things and more. Nontraditional metal and design choices can be exquisitely beautiful and save you enough money to upgrade substantially on food, décor, or some other key element. Just make sure your choice is durable and comfortable enough to wear everywhere. Your jeweler can advise you on the advantages and disadvantages of various metals.

the sparkling bride

You’ll want the right necklace and earrings to accent your gown. If you’re going with the “something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue” tradition, here’s your chance to incorporate your grandmother's strand of pearls or a new pair of sapphire or lapis lazuli earrings. V-neck gowns work well with dangling earrings and pendant necklaces, bateau necks with longer pieces, and strapless gowns make a beautiful setting for multi-strand or elaborate bib necklaces. If your necklace makes a major statement, consider going minimalist with stud earrings and simple bangle bracelets. Depending on your gown and hairstyle choices, a tiara or headband may be just the thing to top everything off; if you’re wearing a fancy updo that commands attention, a sparkling brooch as an accent can be stunning. You can also add a bit of bling at your waist with the right sort of dress.

nice touch

Wedding-day jewelry doesn’t need to be limited to just the bride. Matching pendants, earrings, or sets make a lovely gift for your bridal party and enhance your Big Day look at the same time.

adel chefridi studio & gallery

Rhinebeck, 845-684-5185, chefridi.com

Adel’s designs have their own way of communicating with anyone who beholds them, transcending both language and time. Come find us nestled in the Village of Rhinebeck, where we have created an inviting gallery to share our jewelry and other treasures to please the senses; where beauty honors the past, is grounded in the present, and looks forward to the future.

facets of earth

Kingston, 845-331-2693, facetsofearth.com

We create exceptionally handcrafted jewelry in our open studio. Choose to watch your ideas come to life, repurpose your old jewelry, or enjoy our selection of fine jewelry designers from around the globe. Whether you’re searching for traditional or alternative styles, we will make your experience unforgettable.

hudson valley goldsmith

Beacon, 845-440-7894, New Paltz: 845-255-5872, hudsonvalleygoldsmith.com

If you’re looking for something a little different, come visit the master jewelers at work at Hudson Valley Goldsmith. You can design your own one-of-a-kind ring or choose from hundreds already made and in stock. With the area’s largest selection of diamonds, rough diamonds, and precious gemstones to choose from, you’ll be sure to have something special. Come see why they’ve been voted the Best Jewelry Store in the Hudson Valley.

hummingbird jewelers

Rhinebeck, 845-876-4585, hummingbirdjewelers.com

Celebrating 44 years as Rhinebeck’s full-service jewelers. An award-winning destination for fine designer jewelry from around the globe. Specializing in custom design, repurposing and repair by in-house goldsmith Bruce Anderson. Using ethically sourced gems, conflict-free diamonds and recycled precious metals. Appraisals for insurance, estate, and liquidation purposes by owner gemologist-appraiser Bruce Lubman. Open Thurs-Mon 11-5, Sun 12-5, closed Tues and Wed.

schneider’s jewelers

Kingston, 845-331-1888, schneidersjewelers.com

This Kingston landmark has displayed everything you might want in jewelry, watches, bridal jewelry, and unique gifts since 1928. They also offer a wide variety of services, including repairs, appraisals, and bridal registries. Schneider’s prides itself on its business ethics, management, and professional and knowledgeable service.

j bliss studios: goldsmith & gallery

Woodstock, 845-514-9820, jblissstudios.com

Each piece at J Bliss Studios is handcrafted by husband-and-wife team Jared and Joanna Bliss in their Woodstock studio and storefront. Whether it’s using heirloom stones or creating a custom design, they are happy to work with you. Inspired by the natural beauty of the Catskills, using recycled gold and diamonds, they create meaningful and unique wedding bands, engagement rings, and bridal jewelry.