Gifts

WHAT TO GIVE AND WHEN

by Samantha Manzella

date posted: March 16, 2018

Photo by Susan Baker Photography

Photo by Alicia King Photography

Stumped by wedding gift etiquette? For newbie wedding guests, the prospect of giving the right gift at the right time might seem intimidating, but seasoned wedding goers know the process can be fun and simple. Keep in mind:

Cash is always king—some newlyweds will depend on cash gifts to defray the cost of the event. Sometimes the couple will let you know if they prefer no gifts or a donation to their favorite charity. Gifts are definitely expected at bridal showers. Don’t be afraid to get creative: Shower your beloved bride-to-be in thoughtful, practical, or beautiful presents. Most newlyweds expect gifts at the wedding reception. Anything from cash, to home decor, to a prepaid getaway is sure to wow. The more personalized, the better.

There aren’t any set-in-stone rules for gifting at engagement parties. Yay or nay: It’s up to you!

Times are changing, and many modern brides and grooms are shying away from department store gift registries and turning toward online registry services. Sites like Zola.com allow couples to create a custom registry with goods and services from all over the web.

Honeyfund.com, another popular option, lets guests fundraise directly for luxury honeymoons, down payments on a house, home improvements, and more. Be sure to cooperate with the newlyweds’ wishes: Every couple has their own needs and plans. Show them how much you care by giving something that will add to their wedding-day bliss.

Don’t be afraid to get creative: Shower your beloved bride-to-be in thoughtful, practical, or beautiful presents.

exit nineteen

Kingston, 845-514-2485, www.exitnineteen.com

The latest home design wizardry from John Krenek and partner Jamie Niblock, Exit Nineteen is the perfect place to find that special, one-of-a-kind gift for the happy couple. With store sections like “Asian modern,” “country cabin,” “mid-century modern,” and “dinner party,” your gifting options are endless! Whether you are seeking to renew your nest or find the perfect gift, Exit Nineteen’s goal is to make sure no customer leaves unsatisfied.

hamilton & adams

Kingston, 845-383-1039, hamiltonandadams.com

Hamilton & Adams is a modern-day haberdashery, men’s clothing, gift, and curiosity boutique focusing on quality goods and wears with a purpose. The brand specializes in casual clothing, skin care, home/gift, and uniquely curated, locally inspired curiosities. The ideal location for groomsmen gifts and wedding mementos alike, Hamilton & Adams has what you need to make that special day all the more special.

Nectar

Hudson Valley, www.shopnectar.com

We offer a large selection of unique gifts that range from home decor, ceramics, and textiles, to jewelry, teas, stationery, and so much more. Based in the Hudson Valley, you can visit our online store any time from the comfort of your couch! If you’re searching for that perfect, one-of-a-kind-gift for the bride or the newlyweds, Nectar is the place for you.

new york makers

New York, 347-871-1130, newyorkmakers.com

New York Makers features the best artisan goods the Empire State has to offer, with handmade jewelry, home decor, accessories, bath and beauty, specialty foods, and gifts for all occasions. Make your special day even more unique with something made close to home, which captures the spirit of your celebration. Shop online at NewYorkMakers.com.

heart & arrow

Hudson Valley, 845-626-1119, www.heartandarrowhandcrafted.com

Each couple’s journey is unique ~ your wedding favors should be too! Locally & lovingly formulated out of the finest natural ingredients, Heart & Arrow Handcrafted soaps are the perfect gift to express gratitude to your guests. Created at our studio in the heart of New York’s Shawangunk Mountains, our eco-friendly soap process and charitable giving means you and your guests will enjoy handcrafted luxury while feeling good about contributing to a better world. We are happy to create a custom batch for your bridal shower or wedding!

herzog’s home center

Kingston, 845-338-6300, herzogs.com

Herzog’s gift department is truly one of a kind. Whether you’re shopping for a wedding, engagement, bridal shower, or bridesmaid party, you will be pleasantly surprised by their selection. They offer everything from fine candles to cookware, jewelry, and even gourmet foods. The best part is that they will take care of the gift-wrapping, free of charge.